David Silver/Say Anything- Nothing makes me weak in the knees like a casual reference to late 80s/early 90s pop culture. I usually get so excited I’ll message something CRAY like, “Meet me at the Max in 1 hour? ” or, “Diane Court here.” Bagel Meet Bagel- Surprise, surprise. A visit or message from Mark3456 or jbt78 or Cardinalsfan may not catch my eye as quickly as I_shot_the_Sheriff_forreal. Because honestly, what people say in their messages, and their profiles, is way more important than their username. We’ve already done a post or two on profiles and messages, but rest assured, readers!There is enough material here to run a daily tumbler for eternity.In fact, you can find one of my favorite message tumblrs here.
Your username is essentially your online personal brand!
If you consider your online dating profile to be your personal advertising tool in the dating world, your username is your brand’s mission statement.
Creating your username is actually the second most important step to finding and attracting your ideal partner online.
The first step if you didn’t already know, is to have an attractive online dating profile photo to catch attention in the first place.
Without a great photo the chances are your username won’t even matter.
Men are quite visual and they’re instantly attracted to women based on what they finds physically attractive.
After interviewing over 60,000 single men and women over the years there’s a few common things I can say men really find attractive in women.
Men like and notice confidence, attractiveness, independence and acknowledgement from women.
L here and ready to bring you the scoop from the internet dating websites. I may be one year older as of a few days ago, but I’m as immature and judgmental as ever.
Which is why I’d like to use our time today to judge fellow online daters on one thing: their usernames.
James Needham III- So you know how I just said it’s really dumb to use your first and last name? And to those people I say, “I hope you are not going on a job interview any time soon.” Notlookingforsluts- Oh hello, nice guy of Okcupid!